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It’s So Easy To Be Negative

It’s So Easy To Be Negative Posted on February 17, 201811 Comments

We all have good days and we all have bad days but how we decide to react to tough situations in life is really what makes all the difference. I’ll be honest, I’ve had a rough couple of months and I haven’t been the best person. I’ve said mean things, hurt someone I love, and just been mad at everything but you know what? Nothing helped. That’s the thing with being negative, it doesn’t help situations, it only makes them worse. I clearly have realized it after trying it for myself and take my advice, don’t do that to yourself. It’s a sucky situation to be in.

If you don’t like somebody, stop giving them any attention – good or bad. If you have a very strong urge to bitch about someone, just go tell your mom instead of shouting it out to whatever people you see right at that moment. Talking to my mom is actually one of the best way in which I deal with my anger and negativity. I know there are people who will constantly try to bring you down, there are people whom you don’t like so much, people who annoy the living beings out of you but just take a moment to keep that all aside because honestly these people don’t matter. Focusing on these insignificant people will only distance you from the ones who love you and who genuinely care about you.

I’ll tell you one very personal thing about myself, I’m a sucker for positivity and balance, and whenever that balance is disturbed I start to panic. So much so that I try finding positivity in things where there is none because I have this constant need to fill in the void that is in my heart and it’s very difficult to accept this, let alone writing it in the form of a public post. However, writing about your feelings actually helps clearing your head and you don’t even have to write it to show anyone else but just to vent. I’m writing this post today because I’d let these negative feelings get the worst of me and I’m done with it. I’m done with sulking all the time, I’m done fucking things up.

I’m going to deconstruct all the issues  I’ve been having (to fix them) and start accepting my flaws with an open mind. I’m going to create content because it genuinely makes me happy, I’m going to dance because it makes me happy, and the most important thing, I’m going to stop every now and then and just be grateful for whatever I have and for the people that truly matter in my life. I’m writing this post to tell you that it’s easy to be negative, in fact it’s the easiest option out there but it doesn’t do any good to you or anyone else. Today, I choose to get rid of this negativity and anger in me, do you?

* A little piece of my heart lies in this post. It’s my way of dealing with problems and if you’re someone facing similar issues, I really hope that this insight into my life will help you in some or the other way. *

Until then, Lots of love

Lilmissgurung❤

11 thoughts on “It’s So Easy To Be Negative

  1. The thing you said about balance, i feel ya! Love the blog ❤️

    Ps. I’m a libra too, and a Nepali stidying in India 😁

  2. I can feel myself in your post… thats exactly how I was few months back. I took out all my anger on people near me. Avoided my friends. I stayed alone all the time and cried myself to bed without a reason. But talkng to people about my problems actually helped me and I am fine now. I am doing so much better in life..
    I am glad to read your post. It wil surely encourage many souls. 💗

  3. You are so right. And yes talking to mom helps so much more than saying the same stuff to random people. Lots of love to you ❣️

  4. Thank you!!!! Thank you so much mam for reminding all of us that we all get negative so easily. Yes, we all have our good days and bad days but we need to get up from them. They are meant to make us stronger. You are a brilliant example of this. You work hard. Have some good days and some bad too. We all go through this. But we need to get positive, be positive and live positive. This is the only way to live a happy life. And yes I chose this blog because this blog made my day, it reminded me my purpose of life. As it’s said the Glass is not half empty but half filled……..Thank you so much. You are the best blogger I know till now. You are awesome and I love you….❤❤❤❤

  5. Thank you!!!! Thank you so much mam for reminding all of us that we all get negative so easily. Yes, we all have our good days and bad days but we need to get up from them. They are meant to make us stronger. You are a brilliant example of this. You work hard. Have some good days and some bad too. We all go through this. But we need to get positive, be positive and live positive. This is the only way to live a happy life. And yes I chose this blog because this blog made my day, it reminded me my purpose of life. As it’s said the Glass is not half empty but half filled……..Thank you so much. You are the best blogger I know till now. You are awesome and I love you….❤❤❤❤😍😍😍😍

  6. Thank you!!!! Thank you so much mam for reminding all of us that we all get negative so easily. Yes, we all have our good days and bad days but we need to get up from them. They are meant to make us stronger. You are a brilliant example of this. You work hard. Have some good days and some bad too. We all go through this. But we need to get positive, be positive and live positive. This is the only way to live a happy life. And yes I chose this blog because this blog made my day, it reminded me my purpose of life. As it’s said the Glass is not half empty but half filled……..Thank you so much. You are the best blogger I know till now. You are awesome and I love you….❤❤❤❤😍😍😍😍❣❣❣❣

  7. We all have flaws and honestly, we all struggle with it. I’m so happy to know that y article has helped you in whatever little way. Lots of love and strength to you, my love! xx

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